CHILDREN NEED TO BE LOVED

If tomorrow never comes, by Joose brings back nostalgic memories. 


The gist of this song is loving - “to death” - our loved ones, and not waiting till it's too late. But, in this time and age, when separations and divorces are rampant, there is another tomorrow that never comes for some men. It’s a tomorrow of not seeing your child. A tomorrow of not being in the life of one’s child. A tomorrow that, for some men, involves losing your mind because you can't have a relationship with the one/s you mind the most about.

When exchanging vows, we have best intentions our marriage will outlast and outlive those of our peers. The thought of tomorrow never coming never occurs to us. As such, we go through life on autopilot, sans any tricks or tweaks to spice up the flight.Until our marriage becomes another statistic, and we sigh: “If I knew then what I know now …”

I’m an advocate of giving one’s best to one's child. These are memories we make in the sands of time, so, in case tomorrow never comes, there will be indelible footprints, which can’t be blown away by winds or whims. 

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